Five Proudest Moments From My Short but Wonderful Theatre Journey

It feels a little strange not to be part of a major theatrical production these past few months. For most of the last two years, theatre has been a constant in my life—a whirlwind of rehearsals, backstage chaos, new friendships, and stepping onto the stage in front of an audience. Thankfully, I’ll be back soon in an upcoming three-person play written by the incredibly talented Alissa Cooper, but in this brief pause I’ve been reflecting.

I’ve only been performing for a short time, but the experience has been richer, more rewarding, and more transformative than I ever imagined. Normally, I’d be tempted to minimize or undercut my accomplishments—self-doubt has always been a constant companion—but I’ve decided it’s time to flip that script. Instead of shrugging off the highlights, I’m going to embrace them. Consider this my official humblebrag list: my five proudest theatre moments (so far).

1. Becoming Mayor Shinn

When I was cast as Mayor Shinn in The Music Man, I knew I didn’t want to play him as just a stock buffoon. I wanted to give him dimension: pompous, over-the-top, full of bluster, but also sincere in his love for his town and convinced he was its great protector. The director later told me I nailed it in a way no one else could have, which was a thrill to hear.

The final scene—where I was the centre of attention and had to help carry the mood—was one of the most exhilarating moments I’ve ever had on stage. It was bold, funny, and for me, the best performance I’ve given yet. And most importantly, it was a blast.

2. Beavers with Emily

One of the great joys of theatre has been performing alongside my wife, Emily. In The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, we played the Beavers, and every night we seemed to generate some of the biggest laughs and warmest reactions.

My favourite memory came after one performance, when two audience members told us we had such sizzling chemistry that we really should consider dating. A friend of ours quickly chimed in with the perfect punchline: “They’re already married.”

3. Watching Everett Shine

Theatre has become a family adventure, and one of my proudest joys has been sharing the stage with my son, Everett. He’s already delivered standout performances as James in James and the Giant Peach and Winthrop in The Music Man. His charisma, range, and emotional depth continue to amaze me.

I’ve also been lucky enough to share the stage with my equally talented daughter, Danika, whose energy and presence light up every role. I’m certain her breakout moment is just around the corner. Getting to watch my kids flourish on stage while being part of the same productions has been one of the greatest gifts of my life.

4. Taking on Rhythmic Speaking

I’m not much of a singer, which is why one particular role was especially intimidating: a rhythmic speaking part that was almost a song, but not quite. It pushed me more than anything I’d done before, and I was terrified of stumbling.

But the fear made the payoff sweeter. Each night that I pulled it off (most nights, at least!) felt like a genuine triumph. It reminded me that growth often happens in the moments that make us the most uncomfortable.

5. The People

More than the roles or applause, it’s the people that stay with me. I’ve had the privilege of working alongside incredibly talented performers, directors, and crew members, many of whom I now call friends.

As someone who’s been learning more about being neurodivergent, that sense of belonging has meant the world to me. Theatre has given me communities where I’ve felt accepted, supported, and truly seen. That’s a gift no spotlight can top.

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I may not have decades of stage credits behind me, but these moments shine brighter than I ever expected. Theatre has given me joy, confidence, and connection, and I can’t wait to see what the next production brings.